Many of us carry a quiet longing to feel more alive and at home in who we are.
Psychotherapy offers a space to understand the patterns, conditioning, and beliefs that have shaped our lives, and to gently soften the constraints that keep us from being naturally ourselves.
I work with people who find themselves at a point where something is no longer working, as well as those who feel called toward growth and the deeper longings within themselves.
This may include navigating life transitions, relationship challenges, loss of meaning, or feelings of overwhelm, stuckness, or disconnection — as well as the deeper questions of meaning, identity, authenticity, love, loss, freedom, and responsibility that life inevitably brings.
Working together, we create a space to meet the difficult feelings that are part of being human, especially those that are hard to face alone.
All I really wanted was to try and live the life that was spontaneously welling up within me. Why was that so very difficult?
Hermann Hesse
At its heart, psychotherapy is a process of listening to the deeper life within us.
My approach is grounded in the understanding that many of the difficulties we carry reflect the ways we learned to cope when life felt overwhelming — often at the cost of ourselves.
When there is a wound — physical, emotional, or relational — we naturally shape ourselves around it.
We defend. We numb. We manage.
Over time, these protective strategies can become so familiar that they begin to feel like who we are, while also keeping us stuck.
In therapy, we begin to turn toward ourselves with curiosity — meeting the parts that react, control, shut down, or avoid. As we learn to relate to ourselves with patience, steadiness, and care, a deeper trust in our own capacity begins to grow. The patterns that once worked so hard to protect us can begin to soften.
Energy that was bound up in protection becomes available again — for creativity, intimacy, and aliveness.
My role is to accompany you in this process — with curiosity, insight, and a deep respect for your own pace and wisdom.
My work endeavours to create a space for individuals to slowly soften the constraints that keep them from being naturally themselves.
Several fields of inquiry inform and shape the way I work.
To help make therapy accessible, I offer sessions on a sliding scale of $85–$160 for a 60min session.
Longer sessions — including half-day immersions — are available upon request. Please reach out for more details.
I do not yet offer a Medicare rebate.
Each session is unique. We begin by meeting you where you are — paying attention to what is moving in you, the difficulties you're facing, and the longings you carry.
Sometimes we talk through what is happening in your life. At other times we slow down and pay closer attention to what is unfolding in the present moment — within your body, emotions, or thoughts. There may be periods of conversation and periods of silence. At times we may explore different parts of yourself, patterns of relating, or the ways your nervous system responds to stress and overwhelm.
A central part of the work is learning to meet yourself and your experience with greater steadiness, honesty, and care.
Sometimes the work will feel gentle. At other times it may feel more challenging. Throughout, we move at a pace that feels right for you.
I draw on a range of approaches depending on what each person needs — including depth and Jungian psychology, existential philosophy, attachment theory, somatic and nervous-system-informed practice, parts work, contemplative practice, and cognitive and acceptance-based therapies.
Rather than following a single method, I work relationally and responsively — drawing on what feels most alive and useful for the person in front of me.
Finding the right therapist is important and it can sometimes take a few tries. If that has been your experience, please don't be disheartened. It is worth persisting.
Trust your own instinct about whether my approach resonates with you. Take time after the first session or two to feel into whether you feel safe, seen, and that I feel right for you. That felt sense of fit matters more than any credentials or modality.
I work with a wide range of human experiences. Some people come with something specific that has become difficult to carry — anxiety, depression, grief, trauma, relationship challenges, or a significant life transition. Others arrive with a more diffuse sense of stuckness, disconnection, or a feeling that something is wrong, without being able to name exactly what.
I also work with those who feel called toward deeper growth. People who are questioning their sense of identity, meaning, or purpose, or who sense there is more of themselves waiting to be lived.
Whatever brings you, the work is oriented toward understanding yourself more honestly and finding greater freedom to be who you are.
I've been in therapy for much of my adult life, and I deeply believe in its value as a companion for healing and growth. Over many years, this work has stretched, softened, and reshaped me in ways that continue to surprise me — and helped me discover more freedom, depth, and care for myself.
My work as a therapist has grown directly from my own engagement with depth psychology, somatic enquiry, and contemplative practice over two decades.
Through this experience, I became interested in how we grow and mature as adults — how we learn to honour who we are now while making space for who we are becoming.
I live by the belief that this one life is the most precious gift we have, and that we deserve to be awake and vital to the living of it. My care extends beyond the relief of immediate suffering, toward the larger questions of what it means to grow, mature, and become more genuinely ourselves.
If something here has spoken to you, I'd love to hear from you.
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